3 Mistakes Women Make W/ Men

[Jhìå]

» Mistake #1: Leading A Man To Think You Are "Needy" And "Insecure" Did you know that there are 6 ways you can set off a man's "Insecurity Alert" and make him think twice about pursuing a relationship with you? Sadly, even confident women often "accidentally" give off one of these signs... and just one can kill the chance of a man asking you on a second date. As you read through these signals men pick up on as "needy" and unattractive, ask yourself if YOU have ever been guilty of committing one of these deadly mistakes: Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends. Saying bad things about men you have been involved with actually reflects the negatively back on YOU. It makes a man worry you are carrying around "baggage" that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you. Speaking negatively about other women. When women call other women names like "slut", "bi*ch", and "crazy", it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted you. Women will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man might be attracted to her. This just makes a man think you are trying to cover up your own insecurities, and looking for validation and attention. Not good. Too much physical contact, especially in public. If you are constantly hanging on a man or touching him too much he'll start to see it as clingy behavior... but you'll never hear about this from him. It's far better to save your touches for short and infrequent moments that will surprise and enchant him. The next 3 are far deadlier, but less obvious... and it's important that you learn what they are and how to avoid giving them off. But before I show you how to do that, let's talk about mistake #2: » Mistake #2: Appealing To His "Sexual" Side Instead Of His Emotional Side Many women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone... and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well. Women too often give up sex to a man in the hopes that it will translate into a relationship and get them what they want. In reality, a man has the capacity to view a sexual connection and an emotional connection as two entirely different things, and it requires a special set of skills to mold these two things together in a man's mind... and keep them connected. Men are out for far more than just sex... and a woman who knows how to fulfill a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY will be the woman who captures a man's heart... and gets that same fulfillment for HERSELF. In a moment, I'll show you how you can learn to do just that... » Mistake #3: Not Knowing How To Size Up A Man's "Relationship Potential" A lot of women will decide whether or not they should put energy into building a relationship with a man based on ATTRACTION. Yes, attraction is important. But it can also be DANGEROUS. When we feel a strong sense of attraction for someone, it can cause us to override our logic and ignore our instincts... leading us to overlook potential partner's deadly faults that could spell trouble down the road. If you've ever found yourself stuck in a relationship that is dragging you down, this is probably why. It's important to be able to size a guy up and spot any "warning signs" of a future bad relationship FAST... so you don't waste any of your time or emotional energy on someone who isn't right for you... or who will leave you heartbroken. Fortunately this is a fairly easy thing to do, and I'd like to show you how...

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[msclark]

"Mistake #2: Appealing To His "Sexual" Side Instead Of His Emotional Side"

Ok..i've yet to meet a guy that was even into his emotional side.

[Jhìå]

I know how to appeal to his emotional side, but not his sexual side. I'm to self conscious and I have high morals. Then they start to think of me as just a friend. ops:

[msclark]

Originally Posted by Jhìå I know how to appeal to his emotional side, but not his sexual side. I'm to self conscious and I have high morals. Then they start to think of me as just a friend. ops:

I think that's good in a way. As for me, I am a sensual person, but not sexual. So i like to be close(long hugs) and do messages n such, but that doesnt mean i'm trying to have sex/be sexual, ya know. And as i said, their emotinal side- :roll: . Most of the guys I TRIED to date couldnt seem to get past the sexual part. SOO, for the most part, i'm single.

and as far as this goes "Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends". If your ex did you wrong there isn't alot of good sh*t to say about them. I highly doubt your future b/f wants to hear about all the good times you an your ex had.

[C khid]

lol I know i'm banging chicks strictly off the money

amazing how girls flip when they hit the crib